The Mrs. The Mommy. The M.D.: See It. Do It.

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

See It. Do It.


Dr. Trent is originally from Arkansas. She decided residency would be her one shot to get out of Arkansas, and also hoped that she would find her husband in a different part of the country, so residency brought her to Michigan.  She is in her 2nd year of family medicine, however, is currently interviewing for obstetrics and gynecology.  Her hobbies are traveling, going to the gym, running (she is run coordinator with Black Girls Run - Ann Arbor), and her diet and fitness blog Divas4fitness, and of course her family. 

Name:  Alisha Nicole Trent

Medical School:  University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences

Graduation Year: 2012

Future (or Current) Specialty: Currently a family practice resident, but interviewing for obstetrics and gynecology. 

How many children do you have and their ages: 2 boys; 8 and 12

Did you do any post-undergraduate schooling or working before attending medical school? 
No

Did you have any of your children during medical school? If so, how did you “plan” for it?  
No, both were born during my undergrad years.

What kind of childcare do you employ? (i.e. live-in nanny, family help, daycare, babysitters) 
They both attend school full time. I have an in home babysitter for the mornings to get them off to school, especially for the younger one. My younger sister moved to Michigan with me during my intern year and helped tremendously. 

What has been the biggest challenge to handling medical school (and/or practicing medicine) along with having children? How have you overcome it?  
Probably the mom guilt. I'm a single mom, so I do not have the time or resources to put my kids in as many extracurricular things that they may like, simply because I can't do it all. Also, the guilt of having to study, or work long hours, being tired and having to come home and cook dinner and do homework. One gets stretched pretty thin, and if you aren't organized, your life will be a mess.

Do you feel like your school/job is “flexible” to any family issues that may arise?  
Semi, I am a resident, so I don’t control much of my schedule. There are certain rotations that I know there is flexibility; however, there are also other rotations where there is zero. Those rotations, I just have to grit my teeth and get through the month.

What is one item/strategy that you have that helps to make life easier as a mother and medical student/physician? (i.e. organizational method, electronic device, calendar tool, etc.) 
I live and die by my planner. I write everything down from my work schedule, gym time, dinner menu, and kid responsibilities. Without my planner, my life would be a mess; I am in it all times of the day. It helps me stay on track, and allows me to get as much done in a day as possible. If something wont fit into my schedule for the day, they I accommodate that. My plan is to get a bigger calendar to allow my children to also see my schedule and input theirs as well.

What kinds of things do you do to “relax”? 
Go to the gym, hang out with my boyfriend, I run. Shopping is very therapeutic, but tricky on a resident budget. I would love to travel, and I will once I have more money and time ; )

Do you feel that your experience as a mother has made you a better doctor or future doctor? If so, how?  
I do feel that my motherhood experience makes me a better doctor. It helps me to be able to be more compassionate to certain circumstances. It also helps me to talk with the teen moms that I work with in clinic. I am able to give them real life example….myself. I am also able to talk more than just what “data “ says, but what I've tried that worked.

What advice do you have to the women who want to pursue medicine with children?  
Pursue your dreams no matter your circumstances. Your kids want and need the best you, so if you aren't happy in your career, then that may carry over to your family life. It also teaches your children to follow their dreams. I was a teen mom, married and divorced very young. Despite all of this , I never lost my dreams. I suggest talking to other moms.  In medical school, I always made friends with the moms who had children. One of my best friends currently I met this exact way.

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